2018 2nd Annual Mothers Retreat – September 28, 29, 30 2018

 

 

We Walk Together

A Retreat for Mothers of Children with Cystic Fibrosis

The Cody Dieruf Benefit Foundation for Cystic Fibrosis

September 28-30, 2018

320 Ranch, Big Sky Montana

 

At We Walk Together you will find companionship, support, understanding,
resources, wonderful lodging, food, scenery, community, and time for yourself.

There is no cost for your participation in the Mothers’ Retreat
thanks to the generosity of our sponsors.

 You will be responsible for your travel.

Reserve your space at the retreat with a $100 deposit.
Your deposit will be returned to you at the retreat unless you choose to donate your deposit to CDBF

 

Please Join Us!

The retreat is limited to 20 mothers – register by August 15th.  If registration is full we will notify you and place you on a waitlist.  

For more information contact: Laura Mentch – lauramentch@icloud.com – (406) 600-9867

Agenda

Friday:        

  • Horseback Trail Ride (optional)
  • Welcome
  • Dinner
  • Opening and introductions
  • The Journey of a CF Mom

Saturday:   

  • Breakfast
  • Staring into the Sun: Looking at Loss
  • Walking the Labyrinth
  • Lunch
  • Soul Collage®
  • Meditation and Yoga for Everyday Life
  • Dinner
  • Mother’s Heartbeat Drum Circle

Sunday:      

  • Yoga practice
  • Breakfast
  • The Road to Resilience
  • Closing Ceremony
  • Lunch

New this year- Online Registration!

Mothers Retreat 2018 Registration

Please fill out all sections and click submit. You may use the Paypal button to provide your deposit. We will follow up with you upon receipt of this form.

All expenses at 320 Ranch (trail riding, lodging, and meals) are covered for you by our sponsors. A $100 deposit will reserve your space at the retreat and will be returned to you at the retreat unless you decide not to show. Registrations will be accepted after receipt of a $100 deposit. If you wish your deposit may be donated to the Cody Dieruf Benefit Foundation. Guest rooms at 320 Ranch are double occupancy. If you have a roommate preference, please share her name, below. We will honor roommate requests when both women indicate they wish to share a room.

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May You Never Take One Single Breath For Granted.

May you never take one single breath for granted.

To be grateful for each breath, is something we should practice every day. Not everyone has the ability to fill their lungs with ease. I’ve grown up knowing that. It is because of Cystic Fibrosis, that I feel so vastly that my lungs should never be taken for granted. Every breath, every inhale and every exhale. The way my respiratory system is so intricately and beautifully made. My body, for being healthy and carrying me throughout my journey of life. I refuse to not practice gratitude. To be grateful, every second, for another breath, every day for another day to experience life. I am grateful.

We should not take moments for granted. We should not take our time here, on this earth, for granted. We should not take our bodies for granted. We should embrace every second. We should inhale the goodness and the grace we have of another day of life.

Today, I will bask in the goodness of another day. I will be grateful. I will not take a single breath for granted. I will take my body as high and low as it can go. These moments, this life and my body- are not forever. I will make every second as beautiful as I possibly can- however I choose to.

Today, I am grateful for each breath.

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18 year old Madison Ivey never got to grow up with her cousin Cody, who passed away from Cystic Fibrosis, but she holds her close to her heart. From a very young age, Madison would see a butterfly or hear a song and would know that it was Cody making herself known.  She says that, “I feel that Cody is always giving me a sign, leading me to believe that I am on the right path”. ” Madison says that “Cody is her angel on this earth, always dancing to her own beat of the drum”.

Team Cody

It takes a team and The Office of Gallatin County in Bozeman, MT. formed a softball team and played with hearts full of love in hopes to draw awareness of Cystic Fibrosis.  Being strong supporters of The Cody Dieruf Benefit Foundation, Gallatin County Softball Team would like to stike out Cystic Fibrosis.

Whether you make a donation, spread awareness, become an organ donor, or just simply believe in hope for a cure, CDBF hopes that the kindness of others, will inspire you to always try and help people in need and to truly make a difference in the life of those with this disease called cystic fibrosis.

Meet Mike and Kat Porco with Attain Health.

 

 

Attain Health was created in 2016 through the collaborative efforts of Mike and Kat Porco from Red Lodge, Montana.

Attain Health empowers patients with cystic fibrosis by partnering with them to develop the skills necessary

to optimize daily care and regain control over their health. Attain’s platform of Integrative  Health

and Physical Performance Coaching offers clients the opportunity to set personal health goals,

develop implementation plans, establish positive habits and overcome inevitable setbacks to

achieve their vision of health.

Attain Health has served over 125 members of the cystic fibrosis community.

Together, we can make a world a better place.

http://attainhealth.today

 

 

65 Wellness Wishes

A special Thank you to Meghan’s Light Inc.  Sometimes people are brought into our world for a reason.  Meghans Light was formed by Meghan’s family after cystic fibrosis took her life at the age of 39.  
The Cody Dieruf Benefit Foundation is in the planning stages for their 2nd annual Mothers Retreat and Meghan’s Light Inc. is sending a mother from the New York area to this retreat in beautiful Big Sky Montana.
We are forever touched by the goodness of others in this fight against cystic fibrosis.  From near and far we help each other.  Words can not describe how incredible and compasionate Meghan’s Light portrays.  From Boston to Montana, our journey begins to get to know each other better.
 
Meghan’s Light, whose mission is to support finding a cure for cystic fibrosis and to inspire hope and courage in patients, families and communities impacted by cystic fibrosis. Meghan’s Light remembers the light without and the light within that radiated from Meghan during her earthly journey and the continued presence of her light that shines brightly today.

Being a CF Mom

 

Robin Modlin, mother of Anna with CF and Sara without CF 

I always wanted to be a mom. My first child was my entry into a special type of  motherhood. At 18 months old and being kept alive with a ventilator in the ICU Anna was diagnosed with cystic fibrosis. I was devastated. My whole sense of self, my identity as a mother, as a woman wanting a family, changed. Anna survived that bout and came home. I became a mom of a CF child. There was so much to get used to. Our routines revolved around treatments and eating and avoiding illness. This is the way it is in a household with a CF child. I had to decide how I was going to do this job, this job of motherhood that was so very different then I imagined it to be. How would I mother a child whose life expectancy was so unsure? Right away I realized that if her life was to be short there would be many blessings for us and if she should break the odds and live a longer life there also would be blessings. Who was I to say or know what it was to be? This was Anna’s path and I was to be the best mother I could be to help her realize who she was in whatever length of time she had. I had to let go into the unknowable. 

It has been that letting go into the unknowable that has been such a significant part of my life as Anna’s mom. I have come to understand that even with all of the statistics of life expectancy and the real fear and reasonable expectation of death right around the corner we really don’t know what is to become of our children with this disease. Each CF child has his/her own story to be lived. There are trends and there are dear children who still die much to young in spite of the better care available today and there are those who do not get sick until long into adulthood. And there are miraculous treatments like lung transplants that totally change the experience of this disease. It is just that when we begin this journey we don’t know which it will be. As CF moms we all begin on that same ground and in order to survive we must befriend the unknown. 

We have to take each day as it comes. Good days bring relief and difficult days bring tears, tension, fear and pain. Taking care of our selves as mothers is crucial. We want to meet each day as the best mom we can be. We also need to know ourselves as people with other talents and wants. We need to carve out time for our healing and personal expression. This can be difficult at best when our children are struggling, but we must. I did this for myself as I raised Anna. First of all I had a strong CF community in CFRI and I made sure that I got away on my own, that I had quiet time and did things I loved to do. Sometimes I did not do it until I was almost ready to pull my hair out, but I did it. Self care, meditation, exercise, private retreat and art work saved me.

My daughter is about to turn 37 years old! How did that happen? She received new lungs 7 ½ years ago and our lives totally changed again. Her life is still uncertain, as is mine and yours but she has lived hers to the fullest. I still have the pain of being a CF mom. I don’t think that ever leaves. Because of that, 4 years ago I started CFRI’s original CF mom’s retreat called Embrace. Last year I also helped to design and implement the Cody Dieruf Benefit Foundation’s CF mom’s retreat, We Walk Together. We have welcomed CF moms from around the country to develop a community, learn about self care, and have a respite. The amount of healing that happens from the moment the moms enter and then must go home back to their lives is remarkable and such a gift. Magic happens when moms can be part of their tribe with others who “get” what their life is about. We have watched them to continue to support each other between retreats as well. This has been the missing piece for us moms. What has been missing in CF care is the recognition of the caregiver’s need for well being. Moms need to learn that it is OK to take care of themselves and be offered permission and ways to do so. I am so heartened by the tremendous success of Embrace and now We Walk Together. CF moms need each other, need to tell their stories, need to listen and need to be heard.

A Mom Tells her Story. We Love you Jeremy.

Lauri says: Jeremy is the younger of my two children with Cystic Fibrosis. He was born two months after my daughter’s diagnosis. He was a loving little boy, making people laugh, incredibly sensitive to others with “ imperfections.” Teachers and professors adored him, peers flocked to be with him.
He was always the more ill of the kids, but he took everything in stride, entertaining nurses and doctors at the hospital- he quickly became the nursing staff favorite.
He began drawing at an early age, becoming an incredibly talented artist by his teens- he had one of his pieces chosen for a local museum when he was in high school. He graduated with a dance in his step, and a PICC line in his arm.
Jeremy went on to study art/ graphic design for three years. The summer of his third year he got an infection his body couldnt fight off. He held on and fought for three long weeks in the ICU until the end. He turned 21 on life support and earned his wings just 11 days after that birthday.
Now, my daughter fights for both of them, continuing to enroll in the clinical trials they did together…and we are left with rooms full of his art and pictures of him with his beautiful smile.. I often wonder what he would be doing now, had he beat that last infection, and I miss him with every beat of my heart💔💔

We Walk Together

Our Mothers of Cystic Fibrosis Children need you.

Become a fundraising Hero for The Cody Dieruf Benefit Foundation during Give Big 

https://www.givebiggv.org  
May 3-4, 6pm-6pm  The Biggest online giving day of the year

“We Walk Together” Mothers Retreat

Our top Fundraising Hero will receive a
$100.00 gift card to Rib & Chop House 

With your help we can send a mom of a cystic fibrosis child to our three day mothers retreat 

 Name: We Walk Together

https://www.givebiggv.org
Date:  May 3-4, 6pm-6pm

You can introduce a friend and let them know of our important work that we do.

You can let our famiilies with cystic fibrosis know that they are not alone.

Moms we are here for you!

13th Annual Live and Silent Auction

Buy Tickets to the 13th Annual Live and Silent Auction held on March 24, 2018 now!

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Tickets may also be purchased at the door the night of the event for $55.00 per person.